When my friends told me that they are living a swinger lifestyle, I was shocked. I mean I know that they are open-minded and they like to try new things to spice things up, but having a third partner in the bed with them is beyond my imagination. But considering that this swinger lifestyle has become more and more popular nowadays, it is not a big deal that they would choose to have a try.
Then I asked them did they make this decision together or not. My female friend told me that of course they made this choice together or things would go wrong if one party didn’t accept this lifestyle. She said that signing up for a swinger app requires two people to do it together. They needed to upload their photos after they created a new account. She said that it was her male partner proposed this idea first. He proposed it and he intended to communicate with her about the possibilities to have a threesome with a third partner. Then my female partner thought it was totally a great idea because she loved to experience new and exciting things in her life.
Then they agreed to live a swinger lifestyle. The first third wheel that they chose was someone they found on the threesome dating app. They browsed profiles online and they picked several singles men and single women who were interested in joining a couple to have a threesome. The first thing they made sure was that they should make sure that those singles they chose to talk to should be someone that they both like. Then, they started to communicate with those singles to get to know them basically. They tried to know their education level, their hobbies, their interests and also their purposes of joining a couple to have a threesome. After they filter out some profiles, they started to talk deeply about this lifestyle with them. For example, they wanted to know what are the rules that those singles set when they are having a three way in the bed. Of course, they also wanted to know their boundaries. Those information helped them find out a perfect partner that suits their needs. Due to those preparation work, they successfully arranged a great threesome with a single woman that they met on a threesome app.
When she told me about their first experience, I asked her why she didn’t ask one of her friends to be their first partner to have a threesome. She told me that finding a third partner that they were familiar with would probably make everything wrong. Their main purpose to invite a third partner to join them is only to have some fun. If inviting a friend would ruin something they valued, then they would never do that.